The Chat with Aloysius – the man

Well, have this chat with Aloysius this morning which we haven’t been on for a very long time due to his busy schedule.

This chat is about everything. Love, work, technology and survival in this economy turmoil.

He asked me what I am heading for. I said, a home, a wife, a dog, a child, that’s what I am aiming for. And also a career which I am a decision-maker. I make people worry about retrenchment not vice-versa. I am too afraid to be swallow by the society, that’s why I decided to bite it into pieces. He said that I can have everything, a family now. But I tell him, no. Although that’s what I want but not now.

A marriage – besides having the right person (which i have now), T-junction theory kicks into play. Left or right, only one side have the STOP sign. What I mean is the timing and the path you choose, if you happen to choose the wrong one which lead you to the STOP sign after a few years, it’s a restart. So have to consider all sorts of root before letting it obtain the water.

Home – my CPF is not there yet.

Dog – Needs attention and time to train which I do not have currently

Child – out of point now.

So consideration of things really helps you open up to see the pros and cons. Hope my gf can wait.