Friday, 30 January 2009

My Girlfriend is so patient!

Well, my girlfriend is human afterall that is why she complains about her work. Who don't? But she can stick with the world's worst mammal ever and that says it all! KIDS! It is really ridiculous to see how kids nowadays behave and my poor girlfriend have to be patient and still caring towards them. So proud of her!

Today as I was waiting for train back home I heard this little nursery boy conversation with his Mum.
Son: Mummy, I very pissed today.
Mother: Why?

Son: Because teacher today school all the boys. I hate all the girls. They go tell teacher that we run around. But I nv run around. Me..... me and my friends very angry that teacher scold us. I hate the girls.
Mummy: oh.. hahaha...

And the Mother smile to me through the reflection on the door in the train station, I was like grinning away. Haha.. I didn't expect a kid to say PISSED OFF! This is ridiculous! So I would urge everyone to respect my girlfriend! haha..

Another News

Today, I asked Aloysius about what he meant by saying he is free in Facebook, he said he broke up with Kitty.

This is a expected outcome of a sticky relationship. Actually relationship is quite special. It is just a word, but what happened in the process really causes it to fumble and crumble.

Communication is really a key Vito factor to have for a successful and stable relationship and just by adding 3 letters in front of it, it causes unsuccessful and instability. Words are really the one playing tricks on couples when it comes to communication. It can really creates Joy, Anger, Sad and Happy. So I think all who are in a relationship be careful on what you say as it may turn out different from what you meant.

Those who are on their way into your first relationship. Remember these pointers: "Communication, Eye contact, Thoughtful, Awareness, Surprises, Sex and Coax" Of course this is not all of the pointers but it should get you started, BUT DO NOT TOUCH ON SEX IMMEDIATELY!

Banged Up Abroad

This is no one of the "bangbus" series. Today this series is about this dumb guy and half dumb girl. They are struggling in getting on with their life in the high cost living place in UK and they got this deal... a so called deal of getting rich in just a trip to Australia.

So Mark and his girlfriend (then) went over to Australia with 2000pds. They spend their nicest 2 weeks there and the start of nightmare..... On the day of their departure, they were given 250,000 Aussie dollars and have to bring it to Hong Kong to this man staying in this 5000dollars a day suite. And successfully they did and they got 8000pds out of it from that man. That's it, deal settled.

With the money in the pockets of Mark and girlfriend, the girlfriend suddenly became paranoid about worrying Mark will flirt and etc. And so, they broke up in Hong Kong going different ways. Without any much money left with him, he went to his friend, who is a famous drug trafficker in their world. And there he started his "new business".

Here comes the BEST PART! He tapped 700gram of cacaine on his body and also swallowed 60 condoms filled totaling up to 200gram into his stomach. (psst... He nearly died!)

Yeah yeah, he was caught and jailed for 4 years in the maximum security jail in Australia.

National Dental Centre

Finally, it's the end of the week! Today went off early from work to go for my Dental Appointment. I was quite nervous about it as the referred hospital's nurse told me I will be referred to NDC and immediately be doing Root Canal.. To my surprise and a little bit of expectation, CGH forgot to transfer my medical reports to NDC and so I am unable to be proceed with much treatment than moulding the shape of my teeths.

NDC, I was thinking that it is just a regular hospital place, but to my surprise, I kind of like it more than CGH. It's big and spacious, 21 dentists consultant rooms! CAN YOU BELIEVE THAT!! Unbelievable. The assurance is that everyone is a dentist, you don't have to worried about anything will go wrong in any surgery! Haha...

Speaking of Recruitment

Economy meltdown
Everyone are trapped in this economy meltdown situation. Because of direct or indirect business links, a vicious chain reaction - “Devil Chain” slowly eats up companies and thus causing close-down of companies after companies.

Question: “You are in a recruitment firm, so you must be earning like hell as there are more applicants now.”
Answer: Not really. Due to the economy, applicants increase, but job’s availability decreases. Applicants only create more depth for a recruitment databases and also give them higher chance of getting a more suitable candidate for the limited job.

What can I as a applicant do now?
My best advice is to study or work harder in your company in areas that produce cash for your company than concentrating on your normal duties.
To study now is the most suitable and best advice I can give. This gives you a chance to slowdown your fast pace life and improve your knowledge and qualifications so that when the economy finally pick itself up and I reckon it will be slow however will be speed up in 3 months after. So I welcome you to take this advice.

I’ve just graduated from a local university, is my chances of getting a job high now?
Nope, it is as low as 10%. But if you have great experience before you went in for a degree or so, you have higher chances of getting a job. If you come to think of it, it definitely make sense to anyone. Like all my friends who ORD-ed, they choose to hurry up and go for NTU, NUS, SMU, SIM, etc. But neither they realize the path they take is a bet. Having a good degree in a local university is important as it will stand out in resumes, however, it is the timing of it.
For my case, I choose to work first to gain the experience, at least a year of working experience to be able to standout among all the degree holders with nothing to show in their resume. So those who are going to ORD, think twice.

I am going to send my resume out, what should I take note?
What I am going to say is just my recommendations, so do not follow if you think it does not make sense to you.
Picture of yourself is better to keep it to yourself than sharing it in the resume. First impressions are the most important and some recruitment firms do mind that as you are the one whom they are going to present you to their clients, so do take note on why!
Fancy resumes are better off without it. The maximum I will go to is .PDF files, other than that, please do not put in background for your resumes. It will lag in most situations depending on their recruitment software used and it will irritates the researcher, and MAYBE, they will turn to delete your application. Keep your resume simple and comfortable.
Content of cover letter? Write everything from examples but include something interesting, something that will spark interest in the interviewer! And if you want to try writing something about your knowledge on the company you are applying for, make sure you write it right!

Many people loves to make their personality known during interviews and make it more transparent for the interviewer to see who they really am, and some are more introvert in that sense. Who will be the winner? I can’t tell. It all depends on the interviewer likes.
What I will recommend is, be cheerful and smiley throughout and prepared to answer questions like “tell us about yourself, other than what is stated in the resume.” SMILE IS IMPORTANT!

Above is all based on my experience till now, even though it’s not a lot, but I’ve read through 3100++ resume in 4 months. So I do have knowledge of how things should be as one of the researchers! So, good luck and hope all friends gets the job!

Thursday, 29 January 2009

Root Canal

Tomorrow evening I maybe doing my ROOT CANAL TREATMENT, I am so scare and nervous wondering how it would be. All thanks to Jonathan that keeps telling me he had it before and it felt like being punched by someone a lot of times. And when I say root canal, everyone gave me the god bless u look… damn…. WHY ME!!!

My Primary School Friend

This primary school friend of mine did share some joy of my primary school life and I think she thinks I was a joker in the class. Yeap, met her up for lunch in KFC because HALAL. haha… So We chatted about what we have been doing, and lalalala… I have this perception of early child birth thingy, but I was wrong. Hers was some belief of being the only daughter in the family, she have to be married. hmm…. and so I was wrong. Sorry Shaz~ hahaha..

But having from no contacts from primary school friends I have 1~!

Waste of time?

There is a problem on most of us. I did have it too. What problem is that? Relationship. Nope, I am not that blowjobber Kelly, but I am no one but the one stating the truth.

Relationship is something unique, it comes and goes, and if stays, it means it’s the end of what always comes and goes. Then give all you have to make it work then married and died together. That’s it. Yesh, many people take love and being love as one of the importance of life. But if I am asked, it’s really not. I have gf now, I love her a lot that is why we are at the stage of maintaining it, get married and died together. But that’s not the point, the point is what if u are without it?

IF you are without it, u are single, which means you can do a lot of things to make yourself more useful. You get to make decisions on your own. And for now, looking at the economy, work is the best choice, if NOT study for short courses or what. I use to whine about my failed relationships, but I find it no point as to whine on something I’ve also enjoyed myself and was happy, that’s enough.

We are man, we are the one who have to be strong, if we are weak, then how are we going to impress and prove worthy when the time your future wife needs u, your company needs u and your family?

So if you are the one having a failed relationship, stop being moody and also depress, it is an excuse to escape what you still have to do and from your normal life. Bring the spirit to work as work is nothing but the one giving your pleasure of wealth. So, get a job and keep working for the money and relationship can wait.

Just for Laughs

Joel, WATCH THIS!!

Friday, 23 January 2009

Nice pitch nice song

Nope, I still not sure about his quality but I fell in love with this song he sang.. Unbelievable and I can sing it too.. easy.. LOL..

爱只剩下躯壳
为什么还不放手却拉扯
是我不甘心还是不舍
为何我还在固执的拔河
其实我真的很难过
只是难过都沦为沉默
可能我真的不懂得让你更快乐
我想和你在一起却在你未来缺席
给你的爱那些美丽
已长成藤蔓缠着我的生命
在你的未来缺席
像是一出剧本未完待续
预留伏笔把未完成从容继续
如果还有如果就算瞬间老去毫不犹豫
爱是不是都一样
无论多漫长终究曲终人散
可是我不想因为不敢却步沮丧
然后半途收场
如果还有如果拥抱你不犹豫
能不能将你的样子忘掉
舍不舍得爱让我控制不了
只想要把你拥抱
其实爱上一个人没有解药
我的静脉流着爱陪你到老
原来我还会微笑
我真的想和你在一起却在你未来缺席

Singing Competition

This morning watched a bit of the 3rd Taiwan Singing competition. It was so.... flat and dull. Of cos the judges are still the ones who are so professionals. It's just as compared to those during the 1st season. They sang like no tomorrow, they are strong with their voice and everything. They have class and style and the winner is of cos well-deserved, but this 3rd season really sucks. Yes some does sing very nice, but well, maybe putting this two season together really is not right as they are totally different. Well, forget what I say. Just disappointed by the difference of level.

Thursday, 22 January 2009

Just some of the cartoons I've watched before

Of course there are thousand more.. But here are some... haha.. enjoy!


megazords










Titanic

Can you ever believe that researchers say that British who died during the Titanic incident, is due to their gentlemanly behavior and American get to have a higher survival chance due to their individualist thinking.

It was said during the huge commotion in the ship, Britons queue up for the survival boat and American because of the individualist thought, they got on most of the escape boat.

Hmm, I wonder...

Cleric 'must deny' views on rape

This news was extracted from BBC.
The cleric, Samir Abu Hamza, reportedly questioned how rape can exist within marriage, and encouraged "light beating" of disobedient women.


This fellow was later asked to apologize to Prime Minister Kevin Rudd - Australia, as under no circumstances is sexual violence is permissible and acceptable in Australia.

So next time you think you've married the right one, think twice ; )

Woman = ?


This is the picture extracted from Desmond photos in facebook. Seems right and nothing wrong actually. hahaa..

Wednesday, 21 January 2009

Not a reminder..


After my injury during my service, I have to go to Changi General Hospital to seek treatment. This place have plenty of memories. These memories accumulate in just two days but it felt like years.

Dragging my reluctant body back there to collect my letter, makes me nearly teared. I have no idea whether that this feeling is the feeling of regret, the feeling of missing someone or the feeling not being able to feel someone. Walking there, really brings back all the feeling.

What will she be doing now if she is still here with us. How much fun will we be together and travel around together if we are still partying together? I have so much regret and also so much shame to see her. The thought of her jump and my stupid assumption nearly cause her to do it during the 2nd attempt. Why am I such a Smart Alec?

Now even going to pay her a visit is a decision that may take me years. Many may say it was not my fault and should not feel bad but no one will ever understand how I feel. So no point saying any comfort to me because I do not wish to hear.

Finally my era of treatment in CGH has come to an end and will be transferred so hope the memories will slowly fade and bring in the new ones.

Tuesday, 20 January 2009

Do you have a bad day?

YES YES I DID! Damn... It’s the first time is 4 months of work that I made stupid mistakes today. Writing wrong email, filling wrong information on the form and hell lots and lots of it. I think I need a beer.. I need A BEER to get my brain whack and kicked!

Monday, 19 January 2009

Picky in taste

Well, I have this picky taste bud. It’s either eat the cheap and nice ones, or the expensive and nice ones. No such thing as disgusting and expensive, cheap and the amount given was even cheaper. So these factors really play a role into what I want to eat thus giving me a real hard time every lunchtime!

For selection of food to me is easier than choosing what to eat. What I mean is when I was to order a plate of mixed vegetable rice, the choices is easy. chicken and doufu as I don’t need anything fancy. Maybe the color of the light does play a part into making it more delicious looking and hey, I rather have that lighting to deceive me than those doesn’t. Another thing is, the mixed vegetable rice stall must look clear and bright, if not I will feel disgusting. That’s just me..

More taste buds coming up….

Sunday, 18 January 2009

John Tucker Vs Pick Up Artist

I'm not sure whether you guys know about the "professional Pick-up artist". But I should say hell, pick-up artists are so freaking losers... Ok, I am gonna speak out what I really feel about these people compared to jerk like me.

Pick-up Artist: They are predators, mostly hunting for girls or women who have weak spot or "me so horny". They will go into the pubs and clubs to hunt for their prey. This people are mostly hard to find their own charm in their surroundings. They definitely have no idea what women really want. Their skills are mostly acting someone whom their not, pretend they are very good in their PR skills. But when they meet someone more deeper and not just a good-looking brainless teenager, they will fall and burn. When you girls meet someone like that and you are not interested in them, it means you girls are a truly Singapore girl and not what NVA's prostitute (during the vietnam war) said, me so horny~

Being John Tucker: We are not that shallow. We do not talk much during the first time. Don't even need to say "can I buy you a drink". What we do is to know them more deep and not that desperate to jump into hanky panky. We don't really like that part that much than the process of knowing the girl. Remember: A real John Tucker will not talk about sex, they will talk about their past relationships, draws you to speak your sadness which opens you up, break you down and build you up. And break up with you when you are at the highest point.

I was then a jerk, but now I am really into deep love and relationship with my girlfriend (hopefully wife).

Remember this guys!!!! What I've learn is to RESPECT a lady and not thinking of other things!!

Flashback January

Yesterday before I went out with my wife, I decided to go for a swim and main purpose is to sun-tan!!!! Felt really good after the sun-tanning session!

Worst thing that happen to me yesterday, some fatso masturbate beside me and follow me, luckily it's in the shopping centre... HAIS!!! FUCK!!!! I am so dead!! SO DISTURB AFTER WHOLE DAY DISTURBING MY WIFE WITH THE SONG "DISTURBIA". Damn!!! Guys, if you want to know where, it's at The Cathay!!!

Went for a run just now under the hot sun to have a preview of how a 32degree run will feel like, but the main aim is to figure out how tough it is to run a 100km in Sahara desert?? and it's like almost 50 degrees? Just my crazy test for myself and it really drains me under the hot sun in the open patch. No matter how much water you drink, it will definitely drain you like after running a good 5km? Then you will slow down and for the desert run, the sand will go into your foot and it will really hurt.. OUCH!!!

After that run, I took a walk back home, and came by this basketball court that I use to frequent during my school days. Playing basketball, girls sitting at the side. Lots o memory came back and it felt good to know I did those things too and not those "albino" who thinks exercising sucks more than playing video games at home. Bunch of losers!

Sign off with.... I love my wife! Muackz!

If you believe

This is a match between Chelsea and Stoke City. the 88th min goal brings a huge cheer from the fans... and when you played till the 90th min, the cheer gave me goosebumps!!

Friday, 16 January 2009

Filial Vs Education

During my army days, there was this saying, ”if you get good result in IPPT, your soc will suck and vice versa.” This means there is no balance of both.

And so this touches onto my topic. Can we have both? This may not be a question or also need no answers for people who are filial, but what I am targeting is those who are not doing so. The channel 8 show really shows us the parts and parcel of the feelings of our elderly and their thinking.

Some graduates will tend to plan their life our graduation, which is either to work in Singapore or earn big bucks in the big apple or the home for the knights. If they choose to go overseas, for the first few years, they will be back to see their parents, but after that, they will slowly fade away due to the power of money and “responsibilities”

The other kind is to stay in Singapore. They can also earn big bucks and stay comfy in Singapore. However, even though they are close, they also will soon fade away from their parents. Maybe is when they realize their parents are getting old and purposely shun their responsibilities.

I don’t know what I am saying.. But conclusion is, I want to tell all graduates that your father and mother’s hands are small, but they are able to give you everything and the world. SO BE FILIAL!!!! hais… I really hate unfilial children esp. kids now are brought up to be so rude and so ill-discipline.. SO I URGE ALL PARENTS TO BE, if you know you are a bad mother or father, as your children are already giving you problems, kill them….

All Hail Israel


Well, I am really not being sarcastic for the first time. The title is really what I want to express. I am really “discreet” about what Israel is currently doing. I don’t see a point for it to stop. It seems that they are doing everyone a favor of slowly wiping the whole terrorist’s system out. Some shit just have to be flush.

What Israel is complimenting is what Obama is doing – trying to close down Guantanamo Bay down. If he does that, what will happen to the world. It’s like me playing Red Alert using Iraq, building up my suicide bombers network and then… KAAAAAAAAAAAABOMMMMMMBB to the whole world, as what my boss always said, WOOHOO~ Well, these are just the way I see this. I will definitely respect what the politicians did.

If

I think I’ve used this title for many posts already… I used this whenever I duno what to write and to target at something. So it’s just a random post with a random title.

Few more hours, my mood will be changed to the weekend mode. That’s so good as I am planning to go to the Sentosa, I bet tomorrow if I wake up, I will change my mind, if not, that will be great place to be, lazing along the beach and sleep and tan with all the Vitamin D which I need it a lot till I get sunburn.. WOOHOO!!! Love that burning feeling and the crispy looking skin… woohoo~

My Old Friend, Darren

Come on Joel, you knew him too.

Darren was one of the bunkmate I have during my recruit days. He was one of the weakest among the whole platoon and he can’t express himself well enough to let people know his feelings. Most pals of mine laugh at him for whatever he did. Definitely by writing pals of mine, it does not include me.

During the first day, I was very friendly to all the realized everyone was the same and only he was quite soft-spoken. His physical and mental is quite weak and he was kind of army-phobic. When I realized that, I told myself I have to help him and he was my main concentration in the NS because others are normal and I don’t want him to fall into the depression side of things, so I teach him whenever he failed to learn, I guided him when he lost his ways, and I let him adapt slowly so that he can think of happy things in NS.

After our recruit days, I’ve not contacted him since and now glad to see him on Facebook and happy in his life. God bless my brother…

NOTE: I am not that kind to everyone who don’t deserve it. haha..

Thursday, 15 January 2009

tired..

I am tired.. so tired... I am super tired.. But some will say you are tired, we are too.. I dun care... I am currently saying I am tired.. so can i just be selfish for once saying I am tired than hearing others say you are tired so are we.. Why must it be when I say i am tired than you ppl say you are tired? Why won't you people so first? f

Wednesday, 14 January 2009

Overseas Trip

I promise I will do my best to give everything that you want and definitely this year will be our first trip out of his busy world… even though we maybe studying, but we’ll find a way.. LOL..

Cruelty

Last night have a short discussion with my girlfriend on our future and then realize one thing, I’ve lost myself. I was planning to get what I want with the money I’ve saved and now I began to worry about not having enough for the future. Come on Weihong, enjoy what u have now and be with it till the day when you really have what you have and save up then!!! hmmm…

Top PRIORITY
Save for PS3
Save for Overseas Trip

Tuesday, 13 January 2009

Not Preaching

I am not preaching as I have no right to. But I would like to talk about faith. It does not matter what religion you are in, but make sure your kids have one. There is no such things as atheist, but it is not the right and healthy way.

Kids nowadays have a lot of problems, where it be physical, mental or emotional problems. These problems do exists. As children or teenagers nowadays are more spoilt and to the extend of hating their parents or also keeping things in mind than sharing it with parents, that is the cause of a serious problem to be tackle.

Parents will see more towards academic so as when kids grow, they grow with a piece of paper saying how well you can study but in their head, there is depression, in their heart there is a hole.

So a religion basically can help in that they have someone emotionally to talk to. Many says there is no God in this world, may it true or may it be not, but every religion teaches good things. So everybody wants good to be done to their kids, but isn’t it contradicting that religion also does good to their kids and if that is so, why don’t include this in your everyday family teachings to avoid the problems those teenagers have these days.

I do not know whether my point get through, conclusion is, parents should have a good faith in their own religion and teach their kids of that faith in their religion. Peace out!

Confidence

As a small employer of a company, or should I say as a Singaporean, performance in a company is important but somehow most came to think of image is more important. What do I mean by image.

Image is the way you present or project yourself as. For example, when you are asked to handle a project that need researched and you began to plan. But somehow some people will think of what will others think of me when I outshine them. Will they say I am showing off? Proud? This is what I meant by Image.

But this is not the important, as for me, I will plan out what is important, the objective and the job or my image?

Think positive, go out and ask around is not about your image, but it is one of the ways to help build up network for yourself. Once the objective of the job is done, boss is happy about your job, you keep your job, and colleagues will be thinking that you have done a great job, good work, carry on!

This is how you should think than thinking of people will be backstabbing you or whatsoever. Let me tell you, only God can judge you. Men do not judge men as they have no right. We are the same if you see it in God’s way as we are created by him. Even if you don’t it in his way, we all have the same features. Given a choice, which one do you wish to receive, God’s judgment or friend’s judgment?

I’ve chosen that I would mind God’s judgment on me than anyone. He who is my Father has all the right to judge me.

Tired

This few days have been sleeping quite well, but still very extremely tired. I have complete no idea of why am I still so tired. Research had shown that we should not sleep above 9hrs or less than 6 hrs will caused heart problems and 7hrs is just nice, that’s when I sleep and it is killing me with all the lethargic symptoms. ARGH!!!

Yay! Tomorrow meeting my wife for dinner! Bless all of you guys who visits!

Sin

After going through my thoughts and I’ve realized how much I’ve done and how much sin I’ve accumulate throughout the years. Before I believe in Christ and God, I’ve made the same conclusion as the Pharisees. Oh, just hope I will be forgiven as I now truly believe in my Father.

Years ago, I do not believe in the Father, but what really lure me in to believe was the prediction he made during his time and it’s happening now and that is what he showed me. And for that, I take it as a sign to believe in his greatness and being a savior to us.

Joel, you need to have faith too.

Monday, 12 January 2009

Change a look

I am really not sure if this skin really suit the font or whatsoever… LOL..

6th months

Happy 6th month anniversary dear. As the days, months and years goes by, we really got to know the common things between us, we got to know who really is inside us and know who and what we had become till now. 6th months does seems short as compared to friends and others that had years but I can say my love to you is not measured by time as some people will tell their girlfriend of that. To me, love is not measured by anything as it cannot be measured. Then how will you know how important you are to me? I guessed you already knew. The day I’ve put that promise on your hand, the day I look at you and told you to let me take good care of you, the day when you cried, the day when you smiled, the day when we shared, the day we hugged, these shows a great deal of love we both have for each other. I didn’t know how long this testimony is to be written so I’ll keep it short.

I am enjoying everyday the passion, the affections we had for each other. In this relationship, we are free to say what we want as we knew deep in us that we respect each other and love each other which is why we talk about our problems and not shy to share our love and joy. On 12th of July till then and never will I regret having you as my girlfriend and I will continue to pray that you will be the chosen one to be with me for life. I love you so much.. LOVE YOU SO MUCH!!!

Saturday, 10 January 2009

God’s Will

Subconsciously, I think I have accepted the Lord. To this, I will learn his way slowly. However, I am not ready to fully devoted to him or ready to be as my parents have not yet come to an understanding, but I will pray for the day they will. The signs that he showed me when I come to think of it, is really obvious to let me realize a lot of life.

Friday, 9 January 2009

Sorry we are surprise

Oh come on, throwing a light stick into kerosene and expect it to not catch fire?

Saying you are overwhelm by the crowd changing the Ezlink to Cepas Card? Are you a foreigner? Or are you retarded? You are the executive, problems are to be solve or considered before the situation of long queues happen. This is Singapore for god sake. We Singaporeans are kiasu if you do not know maybe you are acting high-class. Damn, you are working for the company, definitely you don’t have to queue so you won’t for see the problem. Why employ so much useless people when they are blind?

And also I was shock that a lot of elderly waiting to exchange their cards. Elderly cards will kick in much later and reporting it in news is not enough. Cost-saving and cause problems? Think about it, if you still want to keep your job, stop wasting your time on eating and more time on thinking! FATSO!

Boycott of USA

Boycott of USA products? What in the world gotta do with them now? Yes, they did support Israel at first but they realized that it is wrong and should help to end the bombardment Israel been doing. Do they really read what Hamas group is about? Who are they? The history of them?

What I think is Hamas is a big terrorist group but they are too weak to create any problems for the world. So they shot out rocket to push Israel and Israel took the bait. After that, Muslim nations will think Israel are at fault for keep bombarding Gaza killing many civilians. But terrorist are cowards who hide and hide, afraid to be killed and they only sacrifice when a lot of innocent dies with them! This also create a lot of muddle heads to aid the terrorist without knowing and this is bad.

The world will go on chaos if other countries step in. Yes, UN and EU may step in. As in Asia, we all live in peace and harmony, why should you stir up? Boycotting of Coca Cola? That is so dumb. Vietnam, China, India, Philippines, they can produce it there. And the company is right as in saying that boycotting them is only creating employment problem for your country. Please… I refuse to use stupid. But just think about it. Dumbass.

Weekend!

Double up taking my medicine tonight, I must. It’s the weekend and I am not giving up my health without a fight! This virus is already in me for like what 2 years as said before and I’ve been trying to fight it, I know it should not be the way, but it’s the weekend. Try having your school holidays and you get sick for that month. I think I’ve proven my point.

So tired and lethargic maybe due to the dust in the carpet that makes me sneeze and sneeze a lot. ARGH! Need a drink but not good for body.. hmm.. I wonder will it hurt? Maybe some will say it won’t if it’s a bit. But my a bit is…………………………. you dun want to know.

The Chat with Aloysius – the man

Well, have this chat with Aloysius this morning which we haven’t been on for a very long time due to his busy schedule.

This chat is about everything. Love, work, technology and survival in this economy turmoil.

He asked me what I am heading for. I said, a home, a wife, a dog, a child, that’s what I am aiming for. And also a career which I am a decision-maker. I make people worry about retrenchment not vice-versa. I am too afraid to be swallow by the society, that’s why I decided to bite it into pieces. He said that I can have everything, a family now. But I tell him, no. Although that’s what I want but not now.

A marriage – besides having the right person (which i have now), T-junction theory kicks into play. Left or right, only one side have the STOP sign. What I mean is the timing and the path you choose, if you happen to choose the wrong one which lead you to the STOP sign after a few years, it’s a restart. So have to consider all sorts of root before letting it obtain the water.

Home – my CPF is not there yet.

Dog – Needs attention and time to train which I do not have currently

Child – out of point now.

So consideration of things really helps you open up to see the pros and cons. Hope my gf can wait.

If there is a chance

If there is a chance, what will you do? Be it a chance for whatever. For me if there is chance or make a choice to work in Singapore or other countries, I will choose to work overseas than in Singapore for when I am still young. It’s the age where we all explore around and gather more experience.

Throat-cutting? It’s true and we have to face it. Singapore’s working environment is changing everyday. More experience from when you are young, there will be a higher possibility of employment.

Reality is what we all have to face. People may want to escape from it, but when the sun rises, they still have to live with it. Why not grow with it? (my girlfriend love to escape from it.. hehe)

Thursday, 8 January 2009

Going to Sleep

I have no idea why I keep sneezing in my office! I think it’s the dust around and when i am home, I am fine. I can go jog and be tired, which is normal kid of tiredness.

Just this evening my mother cooked Curry Chicken and also cabbage, just cabbage. I can say that children nowadays upon see cabbage will tend of say what is this, refused to eat, not nice or say my friends always got good food and whatsoever. To me, this plate of cabbage is what I love and enjoyed. It was the time when my family was super poor and we just have rice and cabbage to come with it.

I forgot about this dish actually. But when I put it in my mouth. I start to remember, remembered the days, remembered when we were poor, remembered the terrible times. But now that it is over, I feel that this is the feeling I’ve been searching for high and low. A food that relates to you so deeply that you can forget having it but the taste is what you can’t deny. Thanks Mum! (I enjoyed this plate of cabbage than any exquisite food.

Another Day Passed

Just another day, working. I really do my work fast so that I am able to breath and wait for what’s coming next. This is just another day for me, maybe thinking of going a run, a walk, a jump or whatsoever. Maybe a jog is a good idea. Had a great major drop in my stamina and 2.4 even after my Standard Chartered 10km which had attained a good result for me which maintain my CSB.

Hope tonight nothing big catches up and just have a relax night and must sleep early.

And you think Singaporean are not funny

People that have thoughts that Singapore is not a place full of jokes and creativity. It can only mean one thing! You are a foreigner OR you don’t really know where to source for it. To give you a good start…. I present to you… Umbrella, just this time….. I’m treating…

Umbrella by…. 88251

Saint

Of course I have not and will not in this life be canonized but today is the first time I got to know Catholic. What is catholic, how is it about, how is it different. There is a lot of awesome stuffs I’ve learned and they are more of very quiet and not really into recruiting people in. They are more saint-like and really belief in something. I am not saying other religion’s followers are not. But maybe it’s because my 23 years of life, I did not really understand how is it as a catholic or maybe my friends are just believers but not really into it. But today, after having a chat with Fabian, I am impressed and also understand more of that religion than before.

Morning ponder 2

When I arrived in the station and boarded the train, a short Indian man walked in and this Chinese guy trying to get away from him. I have no idea why, maybe he thinks he is weird or what. But I don’t care, moved in and stood beside the Indian man, as long as there will be and enough space for people boarding from the rest of the stations.

As usual I took out my PSP and immediately got into the world of Winning Eleven. But something had distracted me. This Indian man pulled out a Holy Bible and started reading. I mean it seems nothing strange about that or it’s common. But after he reads it, he will kiss the Bible. This is definitely something new to me. I am a not a guy from a tribe or what, but religions are very hard to understand to an extend.

I’ve been to Josh’s church – Wesley. I have no idea whether it’s the same as others but people who believes really enjoyed their time there. They will raise their hands, singing very happily, loudly and I was told by Josh that it is to welcome god and offer his acceptance, also to let him know they believe. So i am pretty impress on the impact of a religion.

Now, back to this Indian man. He kissed it and kept reading and kissed it again each time. I can’t really figure what did he read that make him do that but I felt a feeling. A feeling that I never had before, of course not in love with him. But It’s an external feeling that was reaching into my heart. So I pondered and continued my game but this feeling kept lingering in my heart till now.

I believe in signs. Signs that are always everywhere and that make sense. I walked out of the MRT station and saw this guy wearing a shirt and the back of it has a lot of words. But because of many others in front of me, I can’t see what the rest was written but what I can see is “Think about it.” This is what struck me. As said, I believe in signs and it really kept me thinking. Think about what. To relate to something, I’ve related it to think about why the Indian man kissed the bible as he read and also why did I not blame something up there which I should say GOD?

Maybe it’s the way it makes me realized my accomplishment or growth. I don’t know and by the way I’m a Buddhist. I stopped believing in mysterious and superstitious belief after my friend’s death. Since then, feelings of wanting me to believe in the presence of God seems surrounding me, giving me signs of life everywhere I go. Maybe it’s not just me. It’s around all people I guessed. It’s just that people think I think too much, but my thinking is more than just thoughts. It’s the breakdown or deciphering of what comes to mind and why? That is why and also how I manage to decipher human emotions. Maybe not in the expert way, but to my understanding. So friends, take a time to have a step back and look around what exactly you see and try to decipher. I bet it’s not easy for starters. But as you grow with that kind of skill, you will find that it is fun and also challenging and it will never be a complete waste of time.

Morning ponder

This morning as I was rushing to the train station, I was intending to reply my girlfriend and thanks for that, I had realized the phone is currently still in sleeping on my cozy desk at home! So I quickly rush back even though it doesn’t look like I’m rushing. On my way back, I looked up into the blue sky and think to myself what I do whenever I faced this situation in the past? Sigh… I blamed it on whatever is up there.

But this morning I realized I start to blame myself for not being careful enough and left it at home. Because of this I felt great blaming myself than something up there that may or may not exists.

Professionalism

Don’t get me wrong, this doesn’t have anything to do with Army 7 core values. But it is in business context. Today a vendor popped in to pitch to us about their products and services. The way Fabian converse with her is very professional and steady. Learned something today!

Wednesday, 7 January 2009

Immature

Everyone have friends and I will never stop my girlfriend from having hers. Nope, I did not quarrel with her over friendship with friends. Definitely no. This is because we are all adults. We are clear of what path we wants to take and responsibilities and most important the commitment we had. So we won't be like those who will think that way.

This is about an acquaintance that she had. Every single "write something" in facebook that my girlfriend writes recently, he will comment saying sex, and all those dirty stuffs. I am not saying I am pure. But hey, this is my girlfriend you are talking about. No one has the right to disrespect my family. So I just gave my piece of mind tactfully by just a word at a time. Every long sentence this loser said, I commented just a word.

Well, I still think it is his parent's fault. I can't blame him for having and being such a small brain, stupidity, immaturity and maybe died the next day (that will be great! Hurray for the parent!). I can blame it on his parent for being so nice as said by my girlfriend and resulted in such a psychotic and maybe although I'm sure that he is, a sex maniac who masturbates in his room and spread it over his face for his own sense of victory. Poor thing, I couldn't wait to see you in the obituary! Opps~ I guess your parents will be too god damn happy that they forgets all about funeral and wake and just left the body somewhere for others to cremate you. Or maybe you are adopted.. oh man, poor thing again, no one wants you... But no one wants a loser anyway.

Cashmere Mafia

Hope that I've spelt it right!

Well, I find some lines interested which I only managed to pick out 2.

1) I've always wanted the be a dog owner. "NO! You don't say you want to own a pet, they are not property, you should say companion for life "

2) Why did blabla send a portrait to you? "can you keep a secret? yes I can, well, me too!"

KFC

This evening while I was on my way home, I felt the sudden hunger, so I decided to go the KFC I frequent. From my previous posting, I've talk about the services of those fast food restaurant which had disappointed me. This one is different.

As soon as I stepped into the restaurant, this small boy, and I mean above my waist, around 14 years old max. smiled at me. As I reached the counter he is very specific with the things I said, everything was organized properly from what he said. He is very prepared. And what surprise me is he tells me he is going to put spoon and serviettes in the bag. I was like.... HUH? But I gave him a dashing smile and went off. But it was a pleasant and nice experience. The other nice experiences I had was with all the elderly who are doing counter service. thumbs up to Hougang Mall KFC!

Our Song

This song was sang in every singing competition and I have no idea what’s so difficult to sing this song? But when I tried it, it nearly ended my life. It’s high, a very high key for a guy then.

周杰伦 白色风车

Windows Live Writer

Have installed this software and it works find except for takes a bit of time to load up into the web itself. But other than that, the interface seems quite user friendly and well-formatted in a way that I can see how the display will be like even before I click preview and best of all spell check! Remember to download the latest version of MSN Messenger too. It’s cool, check it out!

A New Year

Just realized I’ve not written about what my 2008 is like. Too engross into what 2009. Proven that I love my future than stay in the past. But, now just to have a small recap.

2008 is a very special year for me. It’s a countdown year for my ORD, new friendships, new relationship, parties, work and of course sadness.

ORD-ed in 080908 and this signature the day I will be stepping into society. Got my first professional job application accept and was offered a job which started on 150908. Did not really have any rest after my ord as I went overseas to Batam with Joel, Adam and Leong Wai. It was a very enjoyable trip. As I’ve said earlier, Leong Wai’s laughter is…… hmm…. yeah~ Saw a different side of Adam I’ve never seen before.

My new relationship started in July 12th. It’s kind of fast as I knew her only on July 6th. We have too much in common and was very in love with each others company. Soon we decided that it doesn’t matter how long we’ve met and together. It’s being together that makes the difference.

During my camp days, me and joel and gang will head out to zouk, phuture and wherever there was a party going on. Sometimes sober enough to get back camp, sometimes drunk but still able to make it back camp. Bond was built throughout the process and skills were developed. (>.<)

Sadness came on April, when me and Joel were introduced to Josh facebook friend, Yiling. She came over to join me, Josh, Joel and Felicia at Mind’s cafe. After which, they all went to my place near 1am to prepare to head down St James to Club. Soon Yiling, me and joel click together started to head out everywhere where we always decide it only last min.

Disaster struck on May 22nd and it ended the run, chase Yiling campaign. She jumped from a condo at her boyfriend house and time seems to stop there in my heart. A friend that I’m sure me and Joel will never find. Read my 2008 May posting to know more.

Another disaster struck on Dec 1st where my friend Seck Wang moved on. It was the strangest feeling when Ying ying called me to break the news to me. I bear the pain and hold my tears in my office and divert attention to work. My girlfriend was worried and came over to my place and passed me my Iron man cheese burger. But that’s just a information to let her know I remember. Seck Wang was the nicest guy I’ve seen and he was one of the best 2IC I’ve seen too. But the dreams he told me about and in which I support him as we bear the same idea ended on his side. Let me stable myself and settle down first and I will work on your dreams.

My personal disaster struck on June 3rd when I fainted and fractured my lower jaw. Of course it deeply affected my way of life, e.g. Eating. My teeth are and still fractured till now. Not to worry, the death of my two friends  and the mystery of what lies ahead of me kept me going, not forgetting to mention, my family and my girlfriend too.

This round up my 2008. It’s contains a lot of ups and down but it was a year I’ve learned a lot from friends and people I’ve met. I can say I grew a lot from not being sad but knowing sadness itself.

Tuesday, 6 January 2009

Wednesday


a day near weekend and a day in the mid-week. It just make me hang. Was watching channel U on this entrepreneur who gets profit and annual turnover by finding history in Singapore. That's wow..

I mean really! But when interviewed the primary school kids, they say that it is very tough to memorize Singapore history. Yet again... the lure of technology and parents being busy grooming a talented and smart kid blinded the importance of learning Singapore history. And I think that the services given by this entrepreneur i think his name is Jaiya is really helpful. But it all depends on whether the children are interested in the history after being nurtured to this new world, a world that erases history soon and erases what our ancestors have fought for and built.

Disappointment. such disappointment.

Singapore

For Singapore, I must tolerate whatever that comes ahead.

Awkward feeling

Well, as I was jogging just then, I bumped into Yong Qing and Peiling. Not exactly bumped into, if I bumped into, I'll be either dead or in hospital. They are in the car. As I was getting ready to cross the road running, the car in front horned me and my eyes was as deadly as usual. There is no point to horn me as the green man welcomed me! So i turned and saw them in the car waving at me. So I waved back.

I held no grudges with them as they are not actually one of those that hurt me in the past, so... yeap..

sick



I know this is sick, but i just love it! I love these images except those painful ones. It's so beautiful to burn Hamas. They should ask themselves the question, we have great rocket launcher what do Israel think they have. Here you go, you tried to avoid this question, but you will still get your answer!

I mean they are so dumb to have used rockets to shoot into Southern Israel. They are trying to provoke Israel and make the Muslim world hate Israel on this. But they are the one who started it. Isn't it? I urged countries to give it a thought before helping either sides.

French Tv Ditches Prime Time Ads

See! Revenues is not everything. It's really about entertainment. But well, mediacorp won't do it for sure as it is just a typical Singaporean company. As long as money rolls in, who cares about those who make noise?

Heavy price to pay for infidelity

Think twice before getting marriage (BBC)An Australian woman has appeared in court in Adelaide charged with murdering her husband by setting fire to his penis.

Rajini Narayan, 44, is alleged to have doused her husband, Satish, with a flammable liquid while he was sleeping.

When she set him alight, Mr Narayan jumped out of bed and knocked over the substance, causing the fire to spread.

Mrs Narayan told the court she had not intended to kill her husband but to punish him for his alleged infidelity.

Prosecutor Lucy Boord said Mrs Narayan had confessed to her neighbours, telling them she was a "jealous wife" and believed her husband was having an affair.

"I just wanted to burn his penis so it belongs to me and no one else, I didn't mean this to happen," Ms Boord quoted Mrs Narayan as saying.

The fire, on 8 December 2008, caused damage to the couple's house estimated at 1m Australian dollars ($715,000, £490,000).

Mrs Narayan was initially charged with arson and endangering life - including the lives of her three children who were in the house at the time.

The charge was upgraded to murder after Mr Narayan died from his injuries last week.

She has been held in police custody pending the results of a psychological assessment.

flicking


My mind is flicking like hell now... Should I sign up for Sundown? Should I not and rest for this year Standard Chartered Marathon!!?!?!?! ARGH!!

A change?


I have been wondering on one thing which is how did Standard Chartered be able to withstand the financial and economic turmoil. It definitely have without a doubt made me very interested to switch over to them than DBS, sucking all interests and our money, a Singapore Bank that cause Singaporeans a lot of problems during LameMan Brothers(Lehman). So i decided to look through their Annual Reports and Accounts, as I just attained a cert in finance management. hehe.

After looking through i discover that they are stable in the sense that the investment they make is very safe (of course there is risk for some) but they are still churning in money and really taking care of everything. Citibank was having trouble with credit card bad debts because of all the different kind of cards for different levels. But for Standard Chart, they offer platinum above so as making it a promise or a higher believe that those who earns are able to pay. Their basic a/c interest.. is great too..

Should I make a move? I'm 23 for god sake.. No parent signature is available. It's just an a/c.

True enough

You are a seeker of knowledge, and you have learned many things in your life.
You are also a keeper of knowledge - meaning you don't spill secrets or spread gossip.
People sometimes think you're snobby or aloof, but you're just too deep in thought to pay attention to them.

You are well rounded, with a complete perspective on life.
You are solid and dependable. You are loyal, and people can count on you.
At times, you can be a bit too serious. You tend to put too much pressure on yourself.

You are very charming... dangerously so. You have the potential to break a lot of hearts.
You know how what you want, how to get it, and that you will get it.
You have the power to rule the world. Let's hope you're a benevolent dictator!

You are friendly, charming, and warm. You get along with almost everyone.
You work hard not to rock the boat. Your easy going attitude brings people together.
At times, you can be a little flaky and irresponsible. But for the important things, you pull it together.

You tend to be pretty tightly wound. It's easy to get you excited... which can be a good or bad thing.
You have a lot of enthusiasm, but it fades rather quickly. You don't stick with any one thing for very long.
You have the drive to accomplish a lot in a short amount of time. Your biggest problem is making sure you finish the projects you start.

You are truly an original person. You have amazing ideas, and the power to carry them out.
Success comes rather easily for you... especially in business and academia.
Some people find you to be selfish and a bit overbearing. You're a strong person.

You are very intuitive and wise. You understand the world better than most people.
You also have a very active imagination. You often get carried away with your thoughts.
You are prone to a little paranoia and jealousy. You sometimes go overboard in interpreting signals.

You are deeply philosophical and thoughtful. You tend to analyze every aspect of your life.
You are intuitive, brilliant, and quite introverted. You value your time alone.
Often times, you are grumpy with other people. You don't appreciate them trying to interfere in your affairs.

Reading

What I wrote in the past is really giving me a great look on how I've change and what I've changed into. SO if you have no blog, go get one. In time to go, you will find it very fulfilling and educational throughout your life.

Angry kid shoots sitter

Straits Times JACKSON (Ohio) - POLICE said an angry 4-year-old Ohio boy grabbed a gun from a closet and shot his baby sitter.

Eighteen-year-old Nathan Beavers was hospitalised on Sunday with minor wounds to his arm and side after the shotgun attack. Police said another teen was also injured.

Witnesses told police the child was angry because Beavers accidentally stepped on his foot. Beavers was watching the child at a mobile home in Jackson with several other teenagers and several other children.

Jackson County Sheriff John Shashteen said authorities are investigating. The child has not been charged. -- AP
Kids are going crazy and parents will all be killed by their own fault of having a gun at home.

Weapon


I've failed to get a clearer video of the weapon shot by Israel. But this picture clearly shows what I've meant. Those small sparks are, yeap, you are right, it's all bombs. Will Hamas perish? Soon.... real sooonn..

who wants to be a millionaire?


Everybody wants to be millionaire so that they can have a lump sum of money to spend, to buy houses, clear debts or travel around the world. I've also heard friends talking about going to be millionaire at the age of whatsoever. But they are spending more than earning. They are thinking of doing their own businesses, but expenses are more than profits in their normal life, how did they even think of millionaire?

Well, definitely i have faith in them and as a friend I support their idea. But I just hope they really learn how to walk and feel the ground before jumping or flying all over the place.

Saying so much, after all these years, I start to ask myself, do i want to be a millionaire too? Answer for me is Nope. I just need a cozy house, a wife, a car(maybe, but wife drive), a dog, 2 children(preferably daughter and son), live long enough and healthy that's all. I think having a home and a family is worth billions or being infinitely rich.

Monday, 5 January 2009

A sudden realization

My girlfriend is currently doing up her resume and prepares for her new start after a "Japanese Occupation" that is about to end. I guess since I am in this industry of recruitment, I helped her by giving some advice to her. And it makes me realized that I've looked through 2800+++++++ CVs. Isn't that exciting? I guessed that really had certified me as the most qualified to check your resume if you are intending to send one out. Haha.

Today

Chinatown have been hell today for me. It's very packed and because of the rain it became worst. Hope that the noise level maintain at it's level. I know it won't but I hope.. LOl..

Perfectionist, nah?

While watching tv, I've taken special noticed on companies that offers service. The smiles and the said to be good service they will give. i think me and my girlfriend gave up on those promises of every single company that we came across.

"Your feedback is very important to us; Your feedback will be useful for our growth." I had seen this and I guessed, typing that and putting it on the online form for the pleasure of sight.

Sent out a little feedback to some service that promised but, the reply from them really disappointed me.

Does the the delivery man for Macdonald really smile to you while at your doorsteps?

Gracious starts from clearing plates?

Towards this topic, many may ask how much time will it spend one to clear his or her plates? Few seconds? It doesn't matter at all. Please do not talk about graciousness on clearing plates until normal daily gestures of life that people should act graciously is put into consideration first.

Look, I am not a bad guy here, but I am just helping out those who shut up and "swallowed" all bad gesture done to them, and intending to keep in them for life to speak up.

Example:
  • Standing at the mouth of the escalator regardless of up and down chit-chatting.
  • Stop directly at the mouth of the escalator thinking which direction is the right one to take.
  • Refuse to move in to the back of the bus even though there is space behind resulting the passengers waiting for the bus could not board.
  • When a bus arrives at the stop, the GREAT SINGAPORE SALES starts. I mean the pushing and squeezing.
  • Walking along a crowded area and suddenly stop to think of places to go resulting in a major halt causing a jam behind.
  • Blocking a narrow pathway with your entire family so that you own something in your life.
Well, stated are just a few examples. Dare to tell me you never been annoyed by this?

I can't blame on the teenagers, as most of these were caused mostly by young parents and elderly. Some will even say, you can pardon the elderly. Me and my gf witness an elderly who had missed his stop due to his own mistake and when he had gave up his seat, of course it will be taken by anyone. So after he missed the stop, he immediately ask a little boy to get up from his seat and let him have it IMPOLITELY.

Another incident is when I was on my way to Jurong Point. This was better than the first elderly. A seat was let out to this elder women and immediately she sat down in the MRT, she start to peel orange. Gracious? Wow.... So should we pardon everything we see?

Joel

My blog is still what and how my daily thoughts are and how I feltfor the day. It's the same as before. Ever since I stepped into the society, I started to take note of the current affairs gradually. It gives me knowledge and updates of what is happening rather than being ignorant about it. These current affairs will be put into good use during some chit-chat session or some drinking session with the higher levels or important client who are interested in this too.

So, my blog shows the complains of my life and current affairs that i am concern of and when you visit my blog, it actually gives you a summary of what is currently going on around the world.

So Joel! as a busy boy, which i know freaking busy boy, my blog actually serves as a lazy reader's newsweek. hahaha.

Old saying does not apply everywhere

When there is a bad egg in the entire basket, does it mean that every eggs will be bad in the basket? I'm certain the answer for all is no, that's for sure. But let's try this again, a chicken in the barn catch a bird flu, does it mean that every chicken have bird flu? This time I am sure it is without a doubt yes for all countries! And what does we, as human did? We eliminate all in the barn. Isn't this contradicting to the saying?

By reading this, I guess if I continue to write after the first paragraph, I will be charged. So i better stop. Haha..

Love lasts a lifetime

Courtesy of CNN Sick of cliches?

Take heart, scientists have discovered that people can have a love that lasts a lifetime.

Using brain scans, researchers at Stony Brook University in New York have discovered a small number of couples respond with as much passion after 20 years together as most people only do during the early throes of romance, Britain's Sunday Times newspaper reported.

The researchers scanned the brains of couples together for 20 years and compared them with results from new lovers, the Sunday Times said.

About 10 percent of the mature couples had the same chemical reactions when shown photographs of their loved ones as those just starting out.

Previous research has suggested that the first stages of romantic love fade within 15 months and after 10 years it has gone completely, the newspaper said.

"The findings go against the traditional view of romance -- that it drops off sharply in the first decade -- but we are sure it's real," said Arthur Aron, a psychologist at Stony Brook, told the Sunday Times.

Latest Weapon of Israel


Be afraid, be very very afraid of what Israel can do to anyone. The picture seems very briefly drawn. Why not let me help you picturing it by words. Have you watched Iron man? The Jericho Missile? Yeap, that's what it is and what Gaza is getting. Damn the Hamas for getting all this into Gaza.

Teens not getting enough sleep

For god sake, teenagers are still under parents jurisdiction. Doctors can't force them, medicine are just temporary and side-effects may keep in. Parents are the main caused to all the sleeping disorder that teenagers and kids have nowadays. If you are in the public, look at those small kids maybe at the age ranging from kindergarden to primary school. This is a serious matter.

I think I have to jot down everything I've said in regards to children and discipline on children so as not to bother the super nannies to come in and give me a lecture in the future.

Humble brings you up

Does it ever occur to you that to be humble, you need to pay? Not at all right? So why is there still people who are arrogant yet ignorant about everything? Do they even know that when they speak, it clearly shows people the picture of a empty cargo vessel wasting oil and workers strength on board to have it being paddled?

Well, I would say recruitment agents may have met all this ppl. So please, if you are losing friends, or u are going for an interview, know yourself and not being ignorant and snobbish. Because a tasty fruit is often judge by it's colors then it's quality.

Train of the Dead

Morning train ride is like never before. An used to be smiley face on the train slowly evolved and got swallowed into the world of the zombie manifested train.

The characteristics of the zombie present in a morning train can be identified easily, the snobbish look, the paranoid look, the sad look, the gloomy look, it's more like a bad weather in the train with dark clouds.

Proud to say I've been accepted as one of them, sad to say I am one of them now.

Sunday, 4 January 2009

Humanitarian Must Come first then adding more fire

What We SaidSINGAPORE'S foreign ministry said in a statement that Israel's invasion was 'extremely disturbing' and 'can only exacerbate the already grave humanitarian situation,' reiterating a call for restraint on all sides.

'We hope that an immediate ceasefire can be agreed so that urgent humanitarian concerns can be addressed,' the statement said.


Below are quoted from CNA
Indonesia to send medical aid to Gaza
Posted: 29 December 2008 1518 hrs

JAKARTA: Indonesia, the world's most populous Muslim nation, Monday condemned the massive Israeli air strikes in the Gaza Strip and said it would send medical aid to Palestinian victims.

The offensive, launched Saturday in response to a wave of Palestinian-fired rockets, has killed over 300 people and wounded more than 600 so far.

The Indonesian foreign ministry said the raids were "an overly violent use of force and disproportionate" to the rocket fire by militant groups.

In a statement, it said the rockets were "an act of self-defence" against what it called Israeli "military occupation and colonisation."

The ministry said it hoped Israel and the Palestinians would resume peace talks.
Meanwhile, the head of the health ministry's crisis centre, Rustam Pakaya, said Jakarta would send medical aid and cash of more than two billion rupiah (US$184,000).

"Besides sending two tonnes of Indonesian-made medical supplies, we'll buy more medical aid in Cairo with the cash," Pakaya added, saying medicines cost less in Egypt and would be easier to transport to the conflict area.

More than 1,000 protesters, mainly students and members of Muslim student organisations, rallied peacefully in central Jakarka, carrying Indonesian and Palestinian flags and banners protesting against the Israeli strikes.

An organiser of the rally said they also planned to march to the Egyptian embassy to urge its government to help Palestinians.

Sick

I'm falling sick soon... It's been 2 years since the last I fell ill. This shows the vaccine did well on me. On and off the signs were imminent now. Occasional headaches, drowsy without medication, tired. Hmmm it's like a menses for me.

Star Wars

Star Wars have always been an all time favorite for fanatics who fancies battles in galaxy. As that for the reason, I am one of them. However, I kind of disappointed myself watching what Channel 5 was showing - Star Wars: Return of the Sith). Maybe it's because of the fast-growing technologies, that as I was watching, I saw a lot of flaws in the movie itself. Disappointed, I am.

Another thing is that since the technologies now are going up, the next thing I am upset is that Lucas is not making another one. Oh come on~ We all want to see a brand new Darth Vader in action and not in animation! Please!

Is it about getting money in or life more important?


Utterly disappointed and also distraught by what happened to the Singapore Flyer. I would say it's not the breakdown that disappoint most Singaporeans. It's about the way they rescued the trapped passengers. Harness and 'hoisted' down by rope. This is ridiculous. What if the harness wasn't tied properly and the passenger fall? This could result in 1 incident result in 2 big news!
Singapore Flyer Stopped FlyingFrom StraitsTimes Online, Singapore flyer was said to have stopped 3 times. It stated how many were on the Flyer when it stops due to weather and braking system fault.

I just hope the management would do their best to solve all problems. I would like to suggest going out there finding out what future potential passengers is worried about. Just don't be lazy on that! (Just hope it's not because of cost-saving that stopped the Flyer to fly.

It's hard to be a mother.

Yeah, parenthood can really be a very tough chore to go through. This phase really needs a lot of patient and love. If you give that, you may end up like Sara Madrid.

Like anyone else, Sara was a mother of a 12 years old child and neither did she know she will never get to see her son goes 13. Sara's son shot her 8 times after being told to do chores. This 12 yr old went up to the bedroom and grab a gun and did what he set out to do.
Quoted from BBCThe boy's lawyer argued the child did not intend to kill his mother, but only wanted to get back at her for abusing him. Police said the boy told them his mother yelled at him and slapped him.

Really, just hope he is definitely not from the tribe in Lord of the Flies.

A mistake, we must help to pay?


To me, setting up of Guantanamo is one of the measure to keep terrorists, suspects and many other dangerous criminals at bay so that they do not close to the society and anywhere near civilization.

As for now, President-Elect Barack Obama is pushing to close down Guantanamo Bay Military Jail.
Based on the news from BBCWashington has expressed concern that some inmates released from Guantanamo could be tortured or persecuted if they were returned to their home countries. Some 255 inmates as still being held at Guantanamo, including about 60 Washington no longer considers a threat and has cleared for release. The US State Department has asked about 100 countries for help clearing Guantanamo Bay over a two-year period, The Australian newspaper reported.

Will you accept one to come into Singapore?

Is it Kumar with double 'O' or 5?


Remembered clearly when the first time I got in touch with this show. Intro-ed by Leong Wai. I guess I do miss that loud and high pitch voice he always had. We sat there near mid-night watching it streaming on the net and in the office. We were laughing like crazy and I think his laughter woke the rested.

We were crazy, we used mic to sing around 10 plus in the night, turning our workplace into a Partyworld. We battled dancing in the office. We played PSP, he plays guitar like no one can. I mean really no one can do that (half way, wrong tune and wahahahaha).

Ok, back to the movie. It's really a hilarious movie. If you have caught up with the 2nd part of it, Harold and Kumar-Escape from Guantanamo Bay. U wouldn't want to miss the first one either. Full of surprises and disgusting shits and funnier than what you will expect! If you want to catch it, it's in HMV or you can rent it from me!

Bangkok Club on fire!

Bangkok Club Kills
Thai club death toll hits 62

BANGKOK - THE death toll from the New Year's fire that tore through a Bangkok nightclub has risen to 62, emergency services said on Sunday, as police tried to track down the disco's owners for questioning.

The 62nd victim was a woman who succumbed to her burns on Saturday, the services said in a statement.


Do you still think that forbidding smoking in those late night clubs and also in the pubs or wherever is wrong for the smokers? Hell yeah, it is good damn right! Smoking in clubs in Singapore seems no wrong in the past, but however now we can only say PHEW~. What if Zouk (Phuture) broke out of fire? I can tell you that everyone will be dead trap in there, the next thing we know, it adds up to Singapore Tragedy in a couple of minutes.

May my Childhood revive Please!!

The almighty BANANA MAN!

Found one. Thanks to youtube, most of my childhood cartoons can be found, however, not thanks to youtube for being so laggy nowadays.

Singapore, way to go

Singapore sentences Ghanaian drug trafficker to death Human rights groups have strongly urged Singapore to abolish the death penalty, but the government maintains that it plays a key role in keeping crime down and is a strong deterrent to organised crime gangs.

In December 2004 Singapore hanged a 25-year-old Australian drug runner Nguyen Tuong Van, despite appeals for clemency by then Prime Minister John Howard.

Two convicted African drug traffickers were put to death in 2007 after their appeals for clemency were turned down and despite protests from the United Nations and rights activists.



Singapore did a fantastic job in being impartial. Although we will feel sorry for turning the request of then Aussie PM John Howard down but law is law (I didn't know Singapore ignore the protests from UN DO you?). Whole world knows that you can't break law in Singapore esp. dealing with drugs. Singapore will never ever tolerate anyone from anywhere doing illegals in Singapore and that I am so proud of Singapore.

Yeah, we know about Mas Selamat, the child's passport case, bla bla bla... but those are because of individuals that spoiled the image of our fantastic law enforcer. Look at how many are now behind bars? Efficient, we are. Mas Selamat is either dead in the sea by now or if he is still running, it's obvious someone is keeping him. Hais. if you are the one, PLEASE, DON"T BE STUPID. Help one terrorist and no one can help you when all nations rain on you!

Not sense of awareness


Little delay in boarding the bus for acceptable reasons is ok. But when it's not and having so many Chi-nas worker behind pushing, THAT"S NOT OK!
After my sweet, nice and sweaty Botanic Garden Trip, we waited for Bus 7 and finally it came. As the bus reaches in front of us, the door opens and we saw this lady talking on the ear piece standing right at where we would scan our EZlink and she just stood there. Being in front, we were thinking she was intending to alight but NOPE! She is just a lack of awareness ugly HIPPO! And we were pushed by the Chi-nas worker to go up. How the fuck are we gonna go up with such a FAT BITCH STANDING JUST AT THE DOOR?

Please HIPPO, you either need to read a book out loud or never let me see you again.

Had Dinner at Waraku

It's always a happy scene to see me and my gf in a restaurant or a food place as there is always no shortage of any kinds of food or choices. All thanks to me, trained with a huge stomach which can vacuum all delicious food in.

What's so good about Waraku is that it have nice food, REALLY GREAT FOOD, affordable prices, good services. What's bad about Waraku, snobbish and rich people go there and look at me in a strange way. Nope, I am really serious. I am wearing a Tee, Berms and slippers and I went in with my well-dressed gf. The first look from this two rich Qi Pao party girls wannabes (Chi-na bitches) look at me from head to toe with eyes that indicate how can a beggar afford this place. HELLO!! This outlet wrote this below their name, CASUAL DINNING PLACE. Please respect.

I heard from a my colleague that he was working with Australians and also some Chi-na colleagues before joining where we are now. The Chi-na colleagues have their nose so high like it's on the forehead. Sticking it so high and talk loudly and also snobbish. The common thing between richer Chi-nas and the not so rich kind is that, they are really looking down on people and people who are under them. This is ridiculous. If I am to have company, sorry, no Chi-nas will be either promoted or even in a executive position. Yet again, I am not targeting at all Chi-nas, but sorry... you are a Chi-nas then.

FA CUP

I am so disappointed. Maybe as a "pundit", I believed too much in teams that seems to be doing wonder. Arsenal, Chelsea and Man City really went all the way below their average playing the games and thus made my rough estimation so way off.

Back To Business

Is our children safe with maid? Of course there are maid who abuse the little kids and things like that. But actually have the parents totally rely on the maid even though such cases did not happen to them or do they know? These links are really fully related to what I gonna post now, but it's somehow to create an awareness of how parents nowadays trust the maid and yet.....

Today when I was in Jurong Point, the always hungry me decided to have my lunch at KFC with my gf. After getting my food, my gf led my attention from the food and to the neighbouring table. Look at it below, what do you see went wrong?


Its obviously freaking wrong. So now, can you trust your maid? You can trust her, but do you trust the people your maid sneaked out with? Can't she wait till Sunday? Why? I am really worried about that little girl. I am not racist or what and this topic is out of point too. But the question I now put it to all parents, If something is to go wrong and very wrong to your child at such a small age knowing nothing, do you blame your maid or yourselves more? Regret is the later part of a fault you made, but knowing the fault could be avoided, why still fulfilled it?

By the way, it's a Saturday, where the hell is the girl's parent? We can only guess... Money could not buy a child's life back.

Day Out

Upon hearing my Mum and Dad describing to me about how Jurong Point is big and got a lot of shops, so the curious me decided to make a trip down to see it for myself. But I was wrong, even though I've got something for my brother's birthday. But I am still disappointed. I do not how to describe it but it's not what I've expected. You just know that you are in Jurong point, there is no surprises of anything actually. Don't believe, go down see for yourself. If you are staying the East, please don't waste the trip. Go there and grab whatever you like and dun hesitate. It's like travelling to JB. One good thing there is that walking along the ground floor of the extension, there are rows of shops selling cute and nice stationery, u must check that out. Haha.. Not to mention.. cute girls. Opps... My girl is so gonna kill me!!!